After working with families in the DC Area for over 16 years and observing their dynamics, here are the 4 key reasons that explain why over 70% of second marriages don't last:
1. Not Enough Time to Reflect;
2. Rushing Into Things;
3. Money; and
4. Kids.
Here is a recent article explaining this further:
http://www.wealthstrategiesjournal.com/regina-a-demeo-why-do-second-marriages-fail-so-often/
Here is a video that discusses the challenges parents face post-divorce:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y-wukchJEv8
For those contemplating a second marriage, I highly recommend you talk about your estate planning before the nuptials, and consider having a prenuptial agreement drafted by an attorney. Also, look into attending a couple's counseling seminar, or you can order the workbook "Focus of Forever" by AAML at www.aaml.org
By Regina A. DeMeo, Esq.
www.reginademeo.com
I guess I can't talk much about with the context of second marriages getting failed but I really think married life or relationships have some hidden aspects which if not identified at the time can break or end them.
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